Women over 35 dating
I had a great job in New York City, good friends, some good dates.But then there were times, lonely days and nights, when I would cry. I would lie in bed awake for hours, tears running onto my pillow. Having experienced the same feeling for a few years, I now know the grief was over being childless, or more poignantly, over the loss of the baby I never held in my arms.I believe in it so much that either it has to feel right or i would not pretend.. glad to know i m not alone Granted, I don't know you or your situation, however, being in New York City, I have lost count at the number of single women in their 30s, many of them friends of mine, who lamented being single and childless whilst continually passing over men and relationships for overly trivial matters (e.g., woman is 5'1 but will not date any man under 6'0; woman wants someone to spend a lot of time with her but won't date any man who doesn't have a prestigious job, which, by definition requires long work hours) Some people are truly just unlucky in love, but many more have a sense of entitlement that's blinded them to what's really important until it's much too late Men are truly fed up with being treated like crap when we volunteer to take on the role of protection, guidance and bread winner. Then impregnate yourself and pay the 0K to raise the child.This article is less about not having a child and more about her personal feelings of rejection from the beau of her choice. Hi Mike, I was a little surprised to read your comment.And the rest of us, about one million American childless women ages 40 to 44, suffer from biological or circumstantial infertility.
Also please explain how independent women have nothin to offer and what do dependent women offer? As a beautiful kind caring woman who's not picky down to earth I've been on hundreds of dates in my life only for men to mistreat me bc I'm beautiful and they're insecure.Yes, there's still hope I'll meet a man who has the desire to have a baby with me and will be prepared to be with me through the treatments I may need to make that happen. I cautiously hold onto the hope that I may still have a chance to hold my baby in my arms -- and that I am still attractive to men who want children too. I am one of the 18 percent of American women between the ages of 40 and 44 who are childless.Pew Research reports that half of this group has chosen that fate; they are childfree by choice.Do you really think that you can paint all women with that same brush?It is sad to read that you feel there is nothing in it for you? Best, S Your reaction shows that in common with vast numbers of women, you are either clueless or in denial. You cannot see it so it's men's fault for not wanting you. Sorry but that is the awful truth and there are millions of men who feel the same way. It has enabled modern women to have their fancy pants career, to be aggressive, independent etc.