Not lonely anymore dating
Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to be in a relationship, but I’m honestly not fully invested into dating that I can’t go to sleep at night.
Sure, having a boyfriend just for the sake of taking cute pics on Instagram would be nice, but it's not a necessity.
Dating these days can be a complete emotional rollercoaster.
People like you, then ghost you, and then then want you again — until of course they realize that they’re not really ready for a relationship but want to hook up occasionally until they finally are.
Because of that, you’re not forcing yourself to feel a certain way because of your relationship status.
There are a lot of people in this world and a ton of potential love stories just waiting to happen.
When you're not focusing all your energy on dating, you may realize you don’t even have time to deal with scheduling dates. Besides, when you’re single and not dating, you don’t have to worry about the stress of having birth control always on hand.
You don’t have the emotional energy to invest into another person. That’s already a good amount of savings right there.
Then, there are going to be days when something really great or something really not-so great happens and you just want to share it with a special someone. Just because you’re single and not dating, it doesn’t mean you have to be typecast into being either/or.When you’re single and not dating, there are so many possibilities.When you’re not actively swiping through Tinder for a date or going to bars every week for a hookup, you’re just out there living your life, open for what’s coming next.Just because I’m not actively dating, it doesn’t mean I’m going to turn every guy down who approaches me.If someone came along who I really connected with, I’m open to pursuing it. People who want a happy and successful dating life will invest time and attention to making it happen. Just like you wouldn't half-ass your career in order to become successful, you're not half-assing your dating life in order to not be alone.