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From a sudden visionary experience to touch and direct sexual experience, this is the way through which Connie’s development in consciousness is achieved, for “the senses must in turn be brought into revitalising relation with the whole of her experience.”2 In this initiatory ritual, which leads a woman to merge with the original force in order to recover her vital energy, a guide is necessary.The game-keeper, conceived as “a product of nature,” “ the natural result of his body’s own propriety,”3 is Lawrence’s best choice.She does not her body any longer, whereas she should discover her own self in “the mysterious maze of the body.” A sense of lack is inscribed in her life just as it is inscribed in her body, a revelation which spurs her to go to the wood as often as possible.From one visit to another, the connection with the wood becomes stronger and her powers of perception increase when she is among the trees and she progresses through the clearing towards the hut as if she were performing a sacred journey.
Precise notations and quite a number of dates are given in the first three chapters: “They came home to Wragby in the autumn of 1920,” or the following indication, in chapter II: “Clifford and Connie had now been nearly two years at Wragby.”who demands her presence and care and whose tyranny towards her intensifies over the months: “vaguely she knew she was out of connection, she had lost touch with the substantial and vital world”(20).
In his last novel, Lawrence’s imagination recreates this space of Nottinghamshire, a parcelled out space of an ever mutable England bearing the wounds of the war, a space corresponding to an amputated body symbolically represented by Clifford Chatterley who, early in 1917, was shipped home, smashed up.
Clifford wanted the wood, located beyond the park gate, “untouched”: “He wanted nobody to trespass in it” (42).
Man and woman should achieve “the right relation,” as defined by Mellors in the evocation of his past life.
“I wanted a woman who wanted me and wanted it” (253).