Dating people at the same time
He was distracting himself from his soul-sucking job.
“That distraction wasn’t benefiting me, and I found I was hurting a lot of people who were invested in me,” he explains.
On the other end of the spectrum, be mindful that dating and chatting to, too many people at the one time can turn into a dangerous game of ‘always seeking greener pastures’ and dating becomes a game.
Those who read and attacked the article seemed to believe that dating two people at the same time is the same thing as cheating — but let’s be clear that it is not. To begin, let’s consider the term “dating.” Dating refers to the time when two people are romantically interested in each other and they spend time getting to know each other. The second phase is the “relationship” which begins once two people have been dating a while and decide to make the relationship committed and official.
“So I decided to take a few months off from dating until I found a new job.
Once that happened, I started dating again — and now I’m exclusively dating a girl I really like.”“While I do like to encourage people to date more than one person at a time, the opposite holds true for someone who has difficulty committing, someone who uses dating as a distraction from their lives, or someone who is looking only to fulfill egoic needs,” she explains.
Rachel, a 27-year-old woman who lives in Chicago, is a great example of Turecki’s point: She was an extremely focused student in college, and afterward she threw herself headfirst into her career.
When a few of her closest friends got engaged within six months, it was a bit of a wakeup call.