Dating my guy named chae
Your ex will then be the one reaching out to you, wanting to talk and for you to consider taking them back.
In order for the tables to turn and the roles to switch, you must resist the urge to chase or else your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend will continue to feel in control, more attractive than you, and that you are their backup plan should they ever change their mind (but they are very unlikely to if you chase).
If you chase your ex, he or she will feel more attractive and confident. If you want your ex to come back, chasing them is the worst thing that you could do.
This is key because it’s the only time when your ex can truly feel at least some of the loss of the breakup and that is required to getting them to want you back.
I have a huge ego, and I'm pretty sure I’m the best thing since sliced bread, but if I were in a guy’s shoes, I wouldn’t be into that.
I don’t want to date a narcissist or a guy who says awful things to me.
Though it is difficult, if you truly want to know how to get your ex back, you must resist the urge to chase, beg, pursue, and contact your ex.
I realize that doing so is counter to what you feel you want to do and should do.